Sweet 16 ideas for Boston Ma?

my 16th birthday is coming up. at first i wanted a huge party. meaning that i was going to rent out a nice place and have a dj and all that stuff. but then i thought it would b more fun to stay at this amazing hotel in boston Ma. my family is pretty wealthy so its not a big deal to stay a night there. im just not sure about what i want to do. any ideas? maybe some places that you think would be nice is M?